|
Article Details |
| |
| How to not be obsessive and jealous in a LDR? |
|
Jealousy and obsessive behavior are the surest ways to sabotage a long distance relationship (LDR). By their very nature they are harmful and toxic traits, especially when imposed upon another person.
When you are involved in a distance relationship, you have somewhat fewer options of communicating with your partner than usual, and the most serious drawback is lack of “face to face” communication. The usual mistake the many people in LDRs make is that they use the precious time they manage to find to communicate with their loved one, only to spoil it with negativity which eventually threatens their long View more |
|
| |
| |
| |
|
|
| |
| Comments |
Read more comments |
| Posted on Sep, 17, 2010 By s.scowden
When your in a LDR those few moments are the only ones you have, why spoil it on you obbsesion and jealousy. Some of it does need to be spent talking about that however before you go into an LDR you both need to have very firm boundaries and stick to them. Its also important that no matter what happens to be honest with one another its much easier to find out something from you loved one then someone else. | |
Report inappropriate comment
|
| |
| Posted on Sep, 01, 2010 By swadesh
test comment by swadesh | |
Report inappropriate comment
|
| |
| Posted on Jan, 30, 2010 By relationshipexpert
Whether that time is on the phone or in person, don't waste it. Don't spend your entire hour-long phone conversation lamenting about how much you miss one another, and how much you hate long-distance relationships. Those kinds of things can be brought up from time to time, but don't dwell on the negative. Instead, focus on enjoying the time you do have together. Talk about your plans for the future, or even just the little things that happened to you throughout the day. Focusing on the negative will make your relationship feel like work instead of joyful and fun, and that will be a quick mood-killer. Sometimes it's hard to let go of the sadness, but make an effort to help one another see the good things in your relationship.
http://howtodate.blog.com/2010/01/30/10-rules-to-make-long-distance-relationships-work/ | |
Report inappropriate comment
|
| |
| Posted on Nov, 19, 2009 By tiffianyclark92
My boyfriend and I havent really discussed jealously or boundaries. Ive been very faithful to him and he isn't the jealous type which brings some relief since two of my friends are guys, but they are both gay anyways. | |
Report inappropriate comment
|
| |
| Posted on Oct, 13, 2009 By mspence
sounds so easy. my boyfriend is a south african, I'm an american. we talked about our 'boundaries', and basically he decided you don't hangout with people of the opposite sex when you're in a relationship, because there's no such thing as a man who wants to be solely friends. sounds unhelathy to me, especially while i'm watching our relationship go to scrambles since he's getting more suspicious each day. i'm not doing anything behind his back!!! i love him. i wouldn't do a dirty thing like that.. but try telling that to his imagination. :/ | |
Report inappropriate comment
|
| |
|
| |
|
|
| |
|
Read more comments |
|
|
|
| |
| |
|
