2 years ago in May 2009 I met a 20 year old Ukrainian girl in the USA (I'm American) and I was 25 at the time. She was on a summer job visa for 4 months. So from May '09 until Sept.'09 we started a relationship which toward the end had become very serious and involved (we even discussed marriage as an option so she would not need to leave, however it was too soon.) So she goes back to Ukraine in Sept.'09 after 4 months of being together everyday and doing many things (in this time we took trips to New York, Miami, Philadelphia, went to concerts, etc.) So she goes back and we decide I will come in Dec.'09 to visit her which I do (and the 3 months apart we call and email about 5 times per week every week.) I arrive in Ukraine in Dec'.09 and stay for 3 months until March '10. In that time things are like they were when we were together in the USA. (During this time we took trips as well, Thailand, Paris, Holland). So this is an extremely serious relationship at this point. I leave in March '10 with the plan of her visiting again in July '10 to the USA for 2 months which she does. During this time we are still going strong like before. (we also travel to California in this time). Now this time she has to go back to complete her university studies and I can not make it back until April '11 (7 months this time). During which 7 months have been like previous times apart either phone calls or emails 4-5 time week. When I arrive in Ukraine in April '11 within a week she tells me she doesn't want to be together anymore, her feelings have changed, she doesn't love me....I am completely devastated by this....throughout this 2 year relationship I had always put her first cared for her first put her needs #1 (we only had the occasional fight like every relationship). I want to include that I NEVER forgot a birthday or valentine's day or anniversary and always got her very nice and thoughtful gifts and dinners because I loved her (and still do). How is it possible that she can come with she just has different feelings and doesn't want to be together she wants someone different (a different personality) how do 2 YEARS seem like NOTHING to her??? how??? I am devastated I am lost.........I really am ..........
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