HOW TO WIN HIM BACK

[Stella1569]

I met a man while overseas, we'll just call him Mr. Wonderful. I had literally just ended things with my longterm boyfriend of five years the day before I arrived in Argentina. Mr. Wonderful and I continued talking for months after I returned home. Daily contact, email, phone calls and skype. Keep in mind we only spent three weeks together in Argentina. After about six months of being back, I ran into my ex. I was lonely, and I got back with him. More than anything I was just scared. Within a week I realized how much I really missed Mr. Wonderful. Now, I don't know what to do or if it's too late to salvage that relationship. Long distance relationships are hard enough already. Is there some kind of grand gesture I can make to get him back? This man has all the qualities I was looking for. He is so special to me and I just don't know how I let myself screw it up.

[LLLL]

I think you have done something wrong here.If you wanted to get back your ex why did you get closed to Mr.wonderful.You better choose one between these two.If you want help we can do that as well.

[GotYou510]

I think it is unfair to both men that you cannot make a decision. Before you try making any "grand gesture" you need to figure out what it is that you truly want so that you don't end up changing your mind and hurting one of them again. If you do decide on "Mr. Wonderful," there isn't much to do besides apologize and hope you didn't burn the bridge...