My Best Friend

[lecavalier421]

I have so many questions, and i tend to over analyze everything; especially when it comes to relationships. So here's what's going on.. I met him New Years eve this year, when he approached me; i thought nothing much of it..He had informed me that he lived in Tennessee and that he was going on college Internship in Greece, so i never thought anything would go further that night- but he proved me wrong. We have talked every single day since then, and we've accepted the fact that we like and care about each other and we know that we are at different times in our lives. He's turning 22 this year, and i'll be turning 18.. He's going to Europe for the year, which is where most of his family lives and one day he hopes to be too, and i'm going to college. I live in Florida and he lives in Tennesse as of now...The reason why i'm opening up about me and him, is because I think i really care about him..Is it foolish to admit that when he is miles away?? it's going on about five months and i am feeling just a stronger feeling about him- i don't know what it is thoughhh... He bought me a ticket to Greece for 2 weeks in October, so i'm assuming i am in his long term plans, but now i'm over analyzing things and i'm getting scared. I like him. ..That is scaring me so much..it's like i want to stiff arm him and push him away because of this. He isn't the type of man to come out and to get all sensitive- his actions speak louder than his words...but what is going on with me now, i have this perfect person who I know is good for me, and is supporting me, given the circumstances now, but...i am so afraid. I hate being vulnerable...

[T<3Pringle]

"I think i really care about him..Is it foolish to admit that when he is miles away??" go for it, if he is your close friend you can talk about everything with him. but be sure of it is him and his personality you like, and not the idea of being with someone.

I met my boyfriend in NY in feb 2009,(he's 28 from Canada, and i'm 19 from Norway) and we basically became a couple the day he went home after visiting me for a week in august. we had been talking almost every day since we met, and got to know eachother. you just don't talk to a person every day if you don't like them.

so you're not over analyzing since he bought you a ticket to greece, he must really want you to come.

why are you geting scared? and what are you afraid of, that your heart will be broken?

just keep on supporting eachother. develop your friendship. but give him big hints that you like him, if you don't want to take the step of straight out telling him.

even though he isn't the type of man to come out and to get all sensitive, he will get there when he will tell you how much you mean to him. he do treasure your relationship since he keeps on feeding it, but don't be in a rush. take one day at a time.

what is going on with you? you're in love. But keep on searching for more reasons for why you like him as you get to know him. cuz guys also likes to hear what is special about just them.

wish you all well. distance is hard, but if you have more to win than loose on it, i wood say go for it.