Posted: Mon Feb 15, 2010 3:49 pm Post subject: NYC, US - Beijing, China
The 13 hour difference really sucks. I can basically only talk to her at nights because I need to get to work in the morning. However, she gets up at irregular times so I end up waiting around on Skype for long periods at a time, and sometimes she just doesn't sign on at all because she has plans she didn't bother telling me about...
That and she NEVER calls me. It's always me calling her. I feel like I'm chasing her down all the time like a stray puppy...
Are you sure this is really working for the two of you? It seems as though you are more attached to her than she is to you. How often do you get to see each other?
Hmm.. time differences are tricky
it does sound a bit odd that she doesnt let you know when she's available to talk- id say try and explain how you feel about it, im sure she'll understand.
it might be hard, but if you leave it then it might get worse and be even more difficult to tackle.
try emailing if its hard to find a good time for both of you to chat- just little things that you want to tell her, if things remind you of her ect.
suggest doing other things- online games maybe, or writing letters too?
hope things get better for you
Kim X
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