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soconfused
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 Posted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:38 pm Post subject: Should I go forth with a Long Distance Relationship? |
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I have been dating a really great guy for the past 2 years. Well, he has to move for his job for the next 2 years but does not want me to move with him. He wants to have a LDR.
I am feeling confused as to why if our relationship is going so well he does not want to try living together in order to be able to stay together! I am feeling that if you don't want me to live with you after 2 years of dating me, will he ever want to live together??
Am asking opinions if I should stay with him and go ahead with the long distance relationship.....or should I just let him go???
So Confused!!
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GotYou510
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| Posted: Sun May 01, 2011 6:23 pm Post subject: Re: Should I go forth with a Long Distance Relationship? |
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The question you need to ask yourself is if you are willing to go forth with an LDR. If you are uneasy about the fact that he doesn't want you to move with him now or later, you should really sit down and talk to him. It may be simply because he doesn't want the guilt of uprooting you. LDRs are very tough sometimes. Keep that in mind. Make sure that this is what you want to do. Although, I would also like to point out that it is an obstacle that, if overcome, will bring you two closer together than ever![/u]
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soconfused
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| Posted: Wed Jun 15, 2011 2:59 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks.
You are indeed correct and perhaps it is me that is unsure if I can go through with a long distance relationship. I have told myself that if we both truly are in love with each other, then love can conquer all.....the sad truth of it is though that I am not completely sure that I believe this.
I like many others have a "damaged" heart and am not the most confidant person when it comes to believeing someone truly loves me and wants me. I guess it is back to the drawing board for me with my feelings 
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kfish
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| Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 8:56 am Post subject: LDRs |
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kitten
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| Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2011 5:08 am Post subject: |
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I think there's something wrong maybe you can try to talk to him in private to settle down of what's the real score between you and him.
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