Washington State, USA - Ramstien, Germany.

[theoriginalgoof]

We've been apart for three years, first while I was in Japan and now for another two while my family and I are stationed in Germany. Two years seems so long.
It's like our relationship has gone..stale, he's more like a brother than a boyfriend. Of course HE doesn't think anything is wrong. I've written him a few letters but he wont let me send them, he wont give me his phone number, so when we DO talk on the phone it's him calling. The time difference is killer, I'm always up in the morning wanting to talk just as he's going to bed.
I still love him, I just need to know how to make this work for another two years till I can go and see him.
Any advice?

[Kimmi_Angel]

That seems like an awfuly hard situation for you to be in!
3 years is a long time, it shows you have something there worth fighting for- is he's willing to work at it too...
I know its hard trying to get you feelings across when you only have phone calls, it must be even worse for you not being able to contact him when you feel you need to. I really think you need to have a serious converstaion about your feelings with him, its unfair on you if you spend your time worrying about your replationship and he has no idea.
I think once he does undestand your feelings then he should be willing to make the effort, if the time difference is hard, maybe try email? and i think he should at least give you his number so you can cantact him- what if there was an emergency? you could also skype, so you can see each other when you talk, i think it would help a lot.
I really hope he aknowledges your situation and is understanding. If its been 3 years since you saw him he must love you, Im sure he'll be willing to put more time and effort in once he knows how much its troubling you.
Kim X