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Pancake
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 Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 11:11 pm Post subject: What to do...? |
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After being in a long distance relationship for 7 months and now being together, another one is the last thing on earth I would want. But with him graduating next year in order to look into grad-school which will most definitely anywhere nearby and me having another year to go I am torn between staying here and finishing over here or trying to find a school near where he would be in order to transfer. I just do not wanna go through all the pain again... Although we now live in the same town now, I even miss him when we are not together since we attend different schools.
Any suggestions? I am just really confused...  But even the more certain that he is the one...
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Keimei
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| Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2010 8:13 pm Post subject: School is important |
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Hey,
I definately feel you about the schooling thing, but... its important that you don't endanger your education for him, you know? Not even just because of the fact that, maybe he's not the one. If you two are important to each other, than think of it this way, get a good education, strive for your relationship, get a good job, and in the long run, you both will be stable financially and have a strong sense of loyalty to each other.
I know being far away and thinking about moving further just don't sound like anything that could be good, but, if you both really want each other, then you two can do it, and you can think long-term too 
Just make sure you guys communicate, maybe set up little web-cam dates or for-sure visit dates. Him being older will mean for awhile his priorties will be a little hard to manage, but, trust each other
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Keimei
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| Posted: Sun Sep 26, 2010 8:15 pm Post subject: |
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oh i missed the last part of your post for some reason, sorry.
If you live in the same town then surprise each other! go visit him, or arrange to go have ice cream or hang out on the weekends. maybe even have a study session so you can both work on homework but at least be with each other
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johanmorse
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| Posted: Tue Nov 02, 2010 7:17 am Post subject: long distance |
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Being in a long distance relationship is challenging and serves how far can you go for that significant other. You both share something in common. Even when you're both in the distance', I think it would be best to open your communication lines all the time. According to some custom essays, elements of a successful LDR are communication, trust and the strength for both parties to stay strong.
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Spiegel-Online
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| Posted: Thu Feb 17, 2011 7:50 pm Post subject: Challenging |
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