I have been with my bf for more than 3 years now. From the start we have always been in a long- distance. Initally he would tell about me to his friends and whenever he would come to visit me, all his work mates would know. But recently, I noticed something different. He has been emailing an ex-workmate regularly who lives in a different country now; yet not once in the email mentioned about me or about the trip we recently had together. Note:that he does not flirt with her though. We are also getting married in 6 months, and that too he did not mention to her. Another 'female' friend sent him an email and asked about me. Initally, he just wrote back in 1 line about me and responded to the rest of the email in detail. Then when she asked more about me, he never replied to her on THAT part of the email. I found this behavior strange! When I indirectly asked him about this, he said that just because he didnt tell them doesnt mean he is hiding something. He just did not feel they are that close enough to tell them about me! But this is contrary to how he behaved in the past..he would tell the whole world about me and now, suddenly doesnt mention. Why is this?
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