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My boyfriend and I met nearly a year ago in Argentina. We had an instant, soulful connection the moment we laid eyes on each other. It was fate. I will never forget the night we met. I saw him and was instantly hooked- for life! It is hard, though. Not having him near is unbearable. But we talk every day, several times a day, and tell each other everything! We also use a webcam whenever we can. It helps a lot to get to see and talk to each other. We talk about everything, from the mundane to the complex emotional stuff. It\'s all there. We have little quarrels sometimes, or maybe misinterpret things, but I am very patient ( he could use some work, though!) but we don\'t hold grudges or get upset. It is difficult to plan visits because of our schedules. He works a lot, and I am pursuing my career, so it is tough. Not to mention expensive! But hopefully I can go back to visit in a few months. Since I still live at home, the situation is too complicated for him to visit me. Maybe next year once I get my own place... I still don\'t know how things will end up; either I move there, or he moves here. Eventually one of us will have to make a giant change. But time will tell- we are not in a hurry, so we are just trying to really get to know each other fully and enjoy the journey. I never thought I would be in an LDR, especially with an Argentinean... they are such players! But he is the exception, not the rule. He respects me and loves me for the person that I am, not the body that holds me. I have never had that before. And he is totally faithful. I know he is honest because he was cheated on in the past, and detests that type of behavior. I do, too. It is hard when so many people have warned me against LDR. But I can tell you, I wouldn\'t settle for anyone else. He is the one, and I want to make this work, no matter how challenging it might be. He is worth it.

May, 04, 2009 By sweettmaidenn  (United States - Argentina) Bookmark and Share
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Posted on May, 10, 2009 By doll_in_sugar_coma

Aww good for you. My boyfriend & I are also in a LDR. He is in Vancouver, Canada and I am in London. We have been together for a year and two months now. He moved to canada 8 months into our relationship and it has been a very hard 7 months apart. We have seen each other twice during this time, and every time we realise it is all worth it. I am planning on joining him in less than a year. It is important to have a goal. You just know when it is righ. I knew that the minute I saw him. I knew he was my destiny and I am determined to make this work!

Good luck to all of us :)

Monia

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Posted on May, 10, 2009 By Stella Au

Give time to a LDR. Things can work out fine, only if both are really committed with passion, trust and continued communication by all means. But when longing reaches high, there are occasions of real encounter till the time that there is lasting real stay together.
I am from Hong Kong and my bf from Ireland. We plan to meet thrice a year. We meet nearly everyday in cam, with Sms and phone calls daily. So our love is so vivid and fulfilling. We can wait till our real stay togehter forever

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