Your Guide to Long Distance Relationships

Hi,,

I know that my boyfriend and I are very lucky, not only do we live in the same country but in the same province, just we are 450 miles apart.. Most times we can get plane tickets for as cheap as $69 each way plus taxes.. so we try to see each other every 3 weeks.. but do to our work schedules, he flys in on Friday night and is gone Sunday morning.. it is hard to go from ldr to together for such a short period of time, it is almost a shock to our systems.. last Friday he flew in and by Saturday night I was starting to get a bit frustrated.. it is hard knowing that in the morning he would be gone again.. We both tried to enjoy the night and just enjoy the time we have.. but it is always so busy .. I have teenagers, and we try to have some family time when he is here.. so Saturday night was my son's hockey game and then board games till 1 pm Saturday night.. it is hard i am not the only one that misses him.. and he misses us and the family life he has here.. I know  I should be the stronger one.. my boyfriend is the one that has to get on a plane and go home to an empty house and go back to work.. for me i have the busy life of teens and work and friends.. Hopefully someday soon he will be able to relocate to where the kids and i are.. it is just a matter of selling a house and him finding work here.. I talked about the kids and i moving to where he lives and he said that he would not want my kids to leave there lives here..  I never thought i would find someone i would want to share my life with again with .. but now i can't wait until the day he does not have to get on a plane to come home to his family.. I try to stay possitive and believe that God will move the mountains when the time is right..

Dec, 15, 2009 By kara  (Canada - Canada)